Dear @EyeR
I only used FB as a example to the idea of a "meet up" , it doesn't have to be used because as far as I am concerned the idea of a "meet up" isn't credible due to the fact of a lot of things which need to be considered ( as seen in my last post)
I understand all of the privacy policy risks ,manipulations of social opinion , etc. as the main reason which I personally was hesitant in joining the social network ( I didn't joined till I was in my late teens)
I was glad when these forums was created. This is the first forum which I have ever used to be honest but I prefer it than FB due to the many advantages in comparison to FB.
I will say that it is up to the person who decides what platform he/she uses to communicate with whoever and in terms of the Asgardia, it is up to the person if he/she decides to use FB ( and have all the risks which relate to it) or use to fourm... It is the basic free will of the person .
Furthermore the useage of the word "retard" can be offensive to somebody , regardless of the nature of how it's put....somebody will take offence to it.
I understand that it was not meant as a offence or a insult , in fact I didn't took offence to it but I can understand that other people would find it offensive. My physical , mental and social development is fine thank you.
I think that what people got to understand is that there will a lot of difference of opinion which need to be respected, regardless of they mental, physical or social development.
The use of derogatory terms and/or words isn't helpful to a person. Although I do not find the word "retard" offensive , I do find it a derogatory term.
Instead of using these terms , help a person out by the simple use of explanations and if possible point out your disliking if any.
Instead of pointing out person's fault , help them and aid them...
You may or may not heard the old saying "if you don't have anything nice to say , don't say anything at all"
I think that is what everybody has to take note (not only you or me but everybody) in when they use this forum.
Kind regards
Fpitts